Intentional Intimacy
Have you ever struggled with finding time to be intimate with your partner (or even yourself)? Let’s get real… you are an In Demand Woman… sometimes intimacy is the last thing on your mind.
This interview with Dr. Chelsea Page is so eye opening to why being intimate is a natural and beautiful part of being a woman. And why you need to start bringing more intention to your bedroom (or any room of the house for that matter!)!
Pleasure is the measure
All our lives we have been told that great sex means intense orgasms. The current page on Cosmopolitan Magazine’s website reads, “In the market for a mind-blowing, bed-rattling orgasm? … to help you reach your peak every single time.”
We have been flooded with information that the only way to have mind-blowing sex is through orgasm. What if we changed that framework? Dr. Chelsea says Cosmo has it all wrong! The real metric to consider is your pleasure.
You are not broken
As an In Demand Woman, you have a lot going on in your life. It’s not surprising that your sex cylinders aren’t constantly firing. THAT IS 100% NORMAL!
In fact, Dr. Chelsea talks about how women are different than men (DUH!) and our desires are responsive to situations and actions. Most often, women do not have spontaneous-want-to-rip-the-clothes-off-my-partner-desire! Talk about mind-blown.
As long as you are enjoying yourself, your partner is enjoying and on one is getting hurt… all of it is exactly right!
The important thing to know is that whatever you like, whenever, however, why, etc. is 100% NORMAL. As long as you are enjoying yourself, your partner is enjoying and no one is getting hurt… all of it is exactly right!
In conclusion
If you haven’t thought about your intimate life in this context, this interview will be enlightening and help you break free from constraints you have.
Remember, take it slow and do what feels comfortable to you and your partner. When you practice intimacy with intention you show up as your most badass, sassy self!
More about Dr. Chelsea Page
Dr. Chelsea Page is a Sex & Relationship Expert passionate about working with women who are ready to break free from the need to be everything to everyone. A reformed over-achiever and people-pleaser herself, Dr. Chelsea is ready to help you step into confidence and connection with yourself and in your relationship both inside the bedroom and out. Meet Dr. Chelsea + get ready to find inner-peace and relationship-peace at DrChelseaPage.com.
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